I was reading a thread on Punternet about how alot of Escorts don’t like being fingered as in fingers in their flanges.
I must admit this quite stunned me as I have never thought to not allow this in a booking..to me it’s a normal part of foreplay for a gentleman or indeed lady to play with you down there..I mean really its the most effective way to stimulate the g-spot.
Perhaps some ladies have had bad experiences with being fingered? My best tips to make fingering pleasurable and safe is always make sure your hands are nice and clean and your finger nails are short with no rough edges..seems obvious doesn’t it? However it really does hurt like a barsteward if you get an unkempt, errant fingernail catching you inside..very ouchy!
Always start slowly…you really cannot go at it straight off like you are punching a hole in a paper bag! One finger at a time and go in palm upwards almost like you are beckoning someone in a ‘come hither’ gesture…the g spot is the spongy bit on the roof of a vagina and if you tickle it right it’s magic!
Of course not all ladies are into this same as oral doesn’t always do it for a lass..we are all individuals after all..but this greedy girl does like both so don’t be shy!
In other news I had a fab weekend…some new good reports on Adultwork and WYSG and blow me I got asked to become a moderator on WYSG to boot…yeah get me and all that!
So come and join West Yorkshire Sex Guide and say hello..although if you are naughty on there I may have to spank you…;)
Have a nice Easter break people….and don’t forget any left over choccy eggs are welcome at Bibitowers! 